“We all have a need, mostly unsatisfied and rarely spoken,
to measure ourselves against nature as we were meant to. To see how far our
muscles and our breath and our unaided minds can take us. In a culture that
lets us do little for ourselves we have this curious and hidden need to make
our way on our own two feet.”
Reese Palley – Lest there be no Dragons
Well, I was 50 this year. If that wasn’t cause enough to reflect on life,
this year also completes 28 out of those 50 years working in the financial
markets of London, New York and Zurich. Even before starting in the City,
whilst rowing at Oxford, I had loosely considered a transatlantic crossing
in a rowing boat. However, like many adolescent plans the siren call of city
life smothered the intentions.
Now, 28 years on, the worm has turned. The bathroom mirror is partly to
blame as there really is a minimum acceptable level of physical self-esteem
(reached and breached about 3 years ago). However, above all, the lingering
desire for a transat never completely went away.
So here we are, 30 years after first conception, 3 years after buying the
right boat, 2 years after the real planning started, 1 year after the
physical training started and 6 months after reading ‘Your First Atlantic
Crossing’. I still have the diesel maintenance course to do the week before
departure!
My family think I’m nuts. I haven’t really had the time to debate that
opinion yet but intend to do so fully once I’ve left Las Palmas. Bit late
perhaps but my beloved wife, Shaunagh, and all five of our children have
always been quite fair in their opinions. I suspect I will have agreed with
them long before I reach Barbados. At this stage, all I can quote is a
passage by Joe Simpson from his powerful book ‘The Beckoning Silence’;
“Nobody grows old living a number of years, people grow old only by
deserting their ideals. Years wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm
wrinkles the soul. Worry, doubt, distrust, fear and despair ...... these are
the long, long years that bow the head and turn the growing spirit back to
dust. Whether seventy or sixteen, there is in every being’s heart the love
of wonder, the sweet amazement of the stars and star-like things and
thoughts, the undaunted challenge of events, the unfailing child-like
appetite for what is next, and the joy and game of life.”
When reading this passage it made me think of many things – the tsunami
orphans being one. Most will have lost not only both parents but also any
love of wonder and the joy and game of life. Doing this trip, for me, is
overdue and about doing something for those so much less fortunate. It may
not be much but it’s a start.
If you would like to contribute (more) to Save the Children then please
visit www.justgiving.com/solotransat and follow the very simple on-line
instructions. It is such a worthwhile cause.
Wish me well. Given my premiums, I know my insurers will.
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